self-doubt keep coming. Again and again, and even in the most impossible situations. For example, in conversations with people or friends or strangers. Doubt about the importance of the andor of us is given. Doubt about the mutual understanding and trust, and how much they say and how much you do not say, and how much you reveal. We control also. Control us and hinder us and control the conversation or the conversation history or try at least.
We doubt our abilities and our opportunities and our stay. Doubts about work and leisure and work processes. Writing and erasing and painting and repainting and recording and dubbing. Speeches and repent or conflicting and explaining and muddled. We want to please or completely unaware fallen. But requires both procedures and risks and the question: Is it successful. But what success has to do with us. Success in the personal. So success in terms of its own or control. Is it successfully to steer a conversation and to give an impression that the idea was to convey, or is it successful, to be yourself, without looking, what impression is, in effect, and therefore easy to worry about control or loss of control or thought, which (you try it deliberately to influence them in another) in any case turns out to be uncontrollable.
I think: What opinion others have of us, can we influence and control that is only partially limited. Probably it is even far more likely that this opinion does not agree with what you see yourself, you think down in itself. Because each behavior now times as not only as a behavior, but is also included and must be. What we do for others are, so we are only really when they see us and hear others and exercise. And yet it seems so important to us. Not least by societal values and delusion (beauty and strength and success and what not) we want to broadcast may not necessarily or only radiation, but have often felt the need to keep up to meet us and also there is no, then anything to other more. What the other but to think, but we can not see clearly. Only a blurred picture of mixed, again with our own reflection. We reflect, like all others around us. While we can try to take every way and to understand the way he is, have But no guarantee that the corollary of the self-image of that. (Even if the whole or that he or she is herself.)
It would be wonderful if we saw all of us against each other as we are. I think it is almost unrealistic. Added to come so secrets: Do not pronounced, Spannendseinwollen, concealment and deliberate confusion. We also like to play but do not arouse interest and put all cards on the table. We fall in love too, and want reciprocity. Do not be put on base, but are not considered by bases from. I have sometimes the feeling that oneself is to meet as equals to the larger Challenge to pretend as a success or nice: broadcast.
I was once told: You can only meet on an equal footing. On the same level you do not have to like, but it does not simply, or. Nobody falls down somewhere, or is against. Only then can we bump into each other stumble over the feet or or a hug or hold your hand and scream or do not talk to each other at times and can even whisper.
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